Failing
to realize the dreamy nature of our lives is what makes us often take things
for granted. Yet, there exist a parallel reality that one might have not
envisioned.
I proudly announced myself as a graduated student
the day I completed my last exam of the final semester in Sherubtse College. On
June the 22nd, I spent my last but confusing night at the college
campus. I was excited for I was heading home the very next day, yet, I felt as
if something was missing. I have always wished for that day to come for my
entire stay out there in the college. However, that day never turned out to be
what I have had actually pictured. I took a very long time, indeed, was too
late, to realize the fact that the moments that I had in college is never going
to ensue again. An angst feeling has
always been passing through my mind, it never let go of me. In a way I forget
to cherish the present. But I do have some very special moments like everyone does;
a memory lived in me, a perfectly encapsulated morsel of a good past.
Today I am standing in an open field of job market
which seems to be speckled with thousands others who go scrounging around
countless offices, desperate to get a job. However, only few returns home with
curled lips. What about the rest? They just return home hoping that every dog
has his own day. For some this period of franticness appears to be a short,
while for some it is as if there is no end to this desperation. All they could
do is watch failure upon failure smearing their lives, taking them further away
from the kind of dream they have in their minds.
This is what I fear the most-“would my life not be
shrouded with such predicament?” I don’t know but my inner instinct always
confronts me because of which I always manage to be optimistic about my life.
The moment I stepped into this strange world I sensed something very unusual,
not about what emerged beyond my pursed world, but in regard to my own home
itself. Never did a moment of comfort
glitter in me unlike before. It is not because I was being mistreated by my
family. Instead, a kind of a feeling always creeps within me, reminding me of
my independent state especially after completing my degree. And the worse part
of being unemployed for me is the ceaseless pressure from the family, friends
and the entire society as general. I have just got hold of the keys which can
lead me to different doors to enter into the real and bigger world. I haven’t
even started looking for jobs, yet, I could feel the stench of something dank, bludgeoned
my nostril already. Being unemployed is thus, like snorting impatiently in despair.
We can do nothing but to fret about our future.
Today, no matter where on earth we stand, one thing
has definitely become widespread fact. The society around us has redefined our
lives and it is not based upon what we really are, rather upon what we do for
living. At this very juncture, every graduate are likely to face a moment of
the reality that surrounds them like a mist on the water. Becoming a part of a
society is never an easy task. Why? It is because whenever we pour ourselves
into a society, the very first question the people ask is “What do you do (for
living)?” This inevitable question itself turns out to be the main subject to
discuss regardless of who ask it. For those who manage to muddle through, it is
a moment of pride but sadly for those who don’t, it’s rather a moment of
exasperation, a despair that entangles them because of the disappointment that
they confront. Those who are wise looks upon them with sympathy while those who
are spiteful, often reckons them as a ‘loser’. We often find ourselves in a
situation where we have to either step up for the competition or to back as a
loser.
Today, regardless of the nature of employers, be it
government or private, most of them are in search of employees with experience
in respective fields which is what most of the fresh graduates lack. Despite
such requirements whenever there is a vacancy announcement on the internet or
in the print media, it grabs the attention of thousands only to add another
book of failure in the book shelf. Where do we the graduates stand today? Unfortunately nowhere until we are smart
enough to brazen out the ceaseless challenges put forward by the society. Are
the standards of today’s graduates declining or those seeking them are
ascending? This is a very important question that shouldn’t be taken for
granted, instead it should he hooked up to the orbit that revolves around out
mind every time.
The road to success always meanders through
different opportunities, an opportunity that might seldom turn to us.
Therefore, grab what comes on your way because you never know where it might
take you. People always wonder and fret about their future, and it is a good
thing to do as there is a kind of a saying “Not everyone who wonder is lost,
they wonder in order to discover something”. The process of globalization has
presented what we call the most challenging determinant in this contemporary
world; having creativity. Modern education
is a vehicle that propels our wits and creativeness and lets us ride upon the
road towards success. Thus, as an educated we must take the advantage of our
situation. Creativity is the greatest
weapon a man could ever have which must be used at this very moment of our
lives.
However, this alone cannot be credited to a moment
that could make us rise to the summit of success like the rising sun. Having
strong faith and believing in yourself is a kind of attitude you must possess
all the time. “You are serving but you are never a servant. Serving is an art
practiced by the supreme-being himself. Gods serves man but he is not a servant
of man”, a person who serves himself well habitually helps others as well. And
this kind of thinking is what most of the employers want to see within you.
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